And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. Romans 8:28
What apparently disqualifies you, might just be what qualifies you for the task ahead. Do not underestimate the value every circumstance and experience adds to your life. Yes, I am also referring to shame, pain, rejection, and failure! Learning to see power in pain, and value in resistance, will allow you walk on water!
Next time the thought of being under qualified to fulfill a task, to parent a child, to be a friend, to love the unlovable, to forgive, to teach a class, to complete a degree… please consider that every “failure” is to help you meet prerequisites to complete the task.